Massage with Desiree – Part 2

I found myself wanting more from Desiree. Not just for my own education, but for my own sheer pleasure. I had experienced average before in my home, or at the spa, but there was a hungry intensity in Desiree’s sensual massage techniques– a feeling that lingered long after she had left Swedish massages me trembling on the table after the first appointment. I remembered the smell of the oil she had used, a sweet musty almond, and the way her soft gentle hands had journeyed across my skin like she had spent hours constructing a map of my naked body.

I needed another appointment with this woman. She was more than just a sexy masseuse– she had evoked a deep need inside of me to explore and communicate, with her massage.

When Desiree came for my next appointment, I was already trembling and hot. She started the massage this time with me lying on my back, eyes closed. I felt her touch my neck and collarbone so gently that my nipples froze and I was tickled below. Then she relaxed me by running her manicured hands down my arms, reminding me that she was gentle, yet strong enough to leave light hand marks I could see when I peeked. I made mental notes for my own practice later but found it hard to retain her method over the intense feelings she caused.

I then felt her outstretched fingers pulling slowly over my breasts. She massaged her hands in passionate circles around, just as some of her long blond hair escaped the clip and I almost lost all composure when it tickled my nipples and touched my lips. There was one moment where I opened my eyes just a little bit and caught her grin as she wisely worked me over.

She began to warm her palms against my belly button and hips and I felt pulled in somehow by her intention, and turned on to the max. Then I heard my partner’s key turn in the lock and the front door to the apartment open…

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The Art of Sensual Massage- Tips to Achieving Sensory Bliss

Picture a Coke bottle figure wearing nothing but high heels, a lavender corset and lacy matching G-string, skin flushed, hands placed on hips and ready to take charge of the situation. That’s right, yours truly. Then picture said vixen sauntering over to her unsuspecting stud in her newest sexy get-up while he tirelessly clicks away at his computer. Said vixen taps him on the shoulder. He turns, he smiles, and then- he turns back to the computer. Wait, you must be thinking, Did I miss something?

Then it dawned on me- I realized I needed to learn some techniques from an expert, since my springing only visual imagery upon my mate at the time just wasn’t going to work. So I found Desiree at an online Erotic Services section. Desiree is a certified massage therapist specializing in erotic massage. A few years and many workshop hours later, here are some helpful hints I have picked up, along with my own best practices in erotic massage:

1. Before your partner has arrived, dim the lights and light some candles. Turn on soothing music at a low volume. Put clean cotton sheets onto the massage table or bed (if you don’t have a massage table, just be sure that you can access the bed from all sides). Place your chosen oil near the table- I like the Kama Sutra line of products, especially the Sweet Almond Oil. It’s also nice to have a moist warm towel ready, on a covered dish to stay warm, and a few dry clean-up towels nearby.

2. Have your partner lie on his or her stomach, and begin by rubbing your hands, fingers closed together, in circular motions across the back, beginning at the base of the spine and traveling upward over the shoulders. Spend 10-20 minutes doing this.

3. At this point, you will probably need more oil. With one hand still rubbing in a long, languid motion, reach for more oil with the other hand.

4. In long, fluid strokes, rub your hands down each arm, one at a time, almost as if you’re gently pulling the arm down. Spend 5-10 minutes per arm.

5. Now rub your way back up over the shoulders, down the back and start in on the bottom, rubbing circles all around the cheeks and gently tugging at each, like you’re gathering handfuls of rice. Spend about 7 minutes here.

6. Work your way down each leg in the same way as you would with each arm, but applying more pressure. Place both hands around the circumference of the leg and pull down slowly and gently, but with some pressure. 7-10 minutes per leg.

7. Focus on feet one at a time, using pulsating, stroking motions up and down the soles and tops of feet with your hands. Apply even and firm but gentle pressure as this will stimulate the sacral (lower body) chakra for a man or a woman. 5 minutes each.

8. Have your partner gently push over onto the back, and then proceed to add more oil and do the Full Body Stroke. Start by lovingly rubbing one hand with your thumbs into the palm and fingers, and then in one firm but gentle and slow stroke bring your hands up across the arm, shoulder, cross diagonally over the chest, down the abdomen, and down the leg opposite the arm you began with. This move should happen very slowly, as if you are drinking in your lover’s skin.

9. Work back up slowly on the same path, and then repeat on the other side.

10. Work up slowly again and rub lightly in butterfly-like motions on the inner thighs, eventually moving with careful, loving motions on the outer genitals. Be careful that no inner genitalia is exposed to the massage oil.

Most importantly, remember to pay close attention to your partner’s body signals. If you sense resistance, tensing up or otherwise, try to be gentler and direct your thoughts lovingly toward your partner for added focus. It is also extremely important to maintain fluid motion at all times. Now, go enjoy the benefits that consciously-directed sensual massage can have on circulation, libido and your life!

Massage with Desiree- Part 1

Picture a Coke bottle figure wearing nothing but high heels, a lavender corset and lacy matching G-string, skin flushed, hands placed on hips and ready to take charge of the situation. That’s right, yours truly. Then picture  said vixen sauntering over to her unsuspecting stud in her newest sexy get-up while he tirelessly clicks away at his computer. Said vixen taps him on the shoulder. He turns, he smiles, and then- he turns back to the computer. Wait, you must be thinking, Did I miss something?

Then it dawned on me- I realized I needed to learn some techniques from an expert. So I found Desiree at an online Erotic Services section. Desiree is a certified massage therapist specializing in erotic massage.

When I opened my door, I greeted a tall, sun-kissed beauty with long, thick blond hair and curvy, smiling lips. I took her big blue eyes and sexy scent in and as she hugged me “Hello,” I couldn’t help but feel her tight, full breasts pressing into my hardened nipples. As I motioned for her to come in I smiled quietly at her heart-shaped behind as she walked in front of me.

First, Desiree oiled my whole naked body down. Then she rubbed circles strategically from my neck, down my back, lingering on my cheeks and down my legs. She warmed her hands and did things to my skin that made me tingle like I had never experienced before. Then she flipped me over and rubbed my neck, my shoulders, my breasts and everywhere else to increase my circulation.

By the time this sexy blonde was done with me, I was sure I would know exactly how to touch my man. But that won’t stop me from searching for Desiree again in case I need some helpful reminders…

Craigslist Loses It’s Balls…

So it seems that Craigslist has lost it. After facing some intense scrutiny fr0m a group of media-hungry attorneys general and prosecutors including Gloria Allred, CEO Jim Buckmaster has decided to throw in the towel for freedom of speech. The site’s former “Erotic Services” section is now “Adult Services,” where users must pay a $10 fee for each new posting and $5 for each renewal post, and are subject to manual screenings by Craigslist staff.

Supposedly this is Buckmaster’s response to the AG’s allegations that Craiglist is an online brothel or hub for prostitution, after the recent murder of masseuse Julissa Brisman by Boston University medical student Philip Markoff in April. The student allegedly connected with Brisman after seeing her ad under Erotic Services. Ironically, Buckmaster’s  decision seems to garner little support from the parties it was meant to appease, as Buckmaster made the changes overnight without consulting state officials. He claims the move was not made under any legal pressure.

I have no issue with the attempt to prevent illegal activity on a widely used website, however futile. I do take issue with the implications that this decision has for the privacy of the user, as well as for freedom of speech. I have a serious issue with the stench of hypocrisy and cowardice that wafts from this scenario. Rather than continuing to rely upon Craiglist users to mitigate content and report abuses in order to maintain an environment of FREE, PRIVATE exchange, Jim Buckmaster has foregone the original integrity of his site just to avoid tough questions, and more importantly, add to his bottom line.

Here’s my bottom line: Whatever happened to Craigslist’s original message of a noncommercial, non-corporate online community, where adults have the freedom to post whatever they want and look for whatever they want and need from other adults? Without the hassle and expense of traditional ad-posting fees? Thankfully, sites like erotichire.com offer posting opportunities similar to the former Erotic Services section on Craigslist, but without any political dogma or corporate fat-cat fees attached. We claim to no longer live in a Puritanical society, and should start proving it. Erotichire.com is an online community where mature, independent adults can post their legal, erotic services FOR FREE.